First off thank you very much for taking the time to help trouble shoot.Looks like you are using a PTZOptics camera, which we also are. I've gotten PTZ Controls to work with a PT20X-SDI Gen2 model, but yours is probably a different model. Regardless, I /think/ the issue is that you have an RTSP URL in the "IP host" field in the PTZ Controls settings dialog. IIRC, all you want there is the IP address of the camera, i.e., 192.168.1.88. Note that the port number at the end of the URL you are using, 554, is instead specified in the "TCP port" field.
Unfortunately I'm not sitting at a machine where I can verify these settings, so if those changes don't work, I /think/ PTZ Controls allows you to use VISCA over UDP instead. If your camera model supports UDP, the port number is probably going to be 1259, unless you've changed it in the camera's web interface.
HTH.
So i found time to play with this again, sorry for the delay. So i have tried only using the ip ONLY f for the ptz control but no luck, if i use ip only for the media source the video does not work, only RTSP works.
i also tried to match all the port id's but no luck either. if i found a port in the web setting i tried it in obs.
this is not a braded as a ptz camer but i beliave i bought from there vendor. the model i have is AT-200TW