Heyyo so I actually isolate the camlink in a scene after deleting all instances of it. I can't find the log for it because I've done like 100 ones since but the max audio buffereing error went away for the camlink and now is on desktop audio LOL. Check it out https://obsproject.com/logs/qbeyK9fHEIxuHYarBet. I'll give this a try when I get out of work.
I'm still dropping frame rate from time to time network wise but it's perfectly streamable at the moment. I'm gunna look into replacing my modem and router both and hopefully that fixes that issue. As far as this audio overload thing I'm not really sure what to make of it or what it really means.