What you tend to get with the ADA cards is more VRAM, which is great in DaVinci Resolve for video editing, but for what you described may not be important, and a RTX card will be fine. My suggestion, *IF* you are going to do 4K video editing on same laptop, look into those requirements (depends on the specific s/w you plan to use), and let that be your guide.
Consider expected PC lifespan, and if system life needs to last to point of most streaming services (CDN, ie YouTube, FB, Twitch, etc) using AV1 instead of H.264. Consider AV1 editing requirements, if applicable.
The comment has been that NVENC is NVENC, it does not get better/faster on upper-end models (ie 4060 and 4080 NVENC perform the same). What you can get is dual NVENC on some upper-end cards, if you need that (I stream Stream and Record at 1080p30 on a 1660Super (single NVENC) just fine, using separate encoding settings (I record at ~3X bitrate as I stream).
Beyond that, it really depends. Someone would need a LOT more workflow details than you posted to even begin to estimate CPU and GPU demands. ex, number, resolution/framerate and type of cameras (NDI, USB, HDMI capture card, etc)... Then, what other workloads other than OBS? OBS Studio has some audio filtering and effects, but certainly not to level of a DAW? Don't under-estimate system impact of browser windows being open, playing 4K pre-recorded videos, etc. For future-proofing, I'd want to start with more than 16GB RAM, to be on safe side.
Laptops are power and thermally throttled, compared to desktops. But, with proper OS, OBS Studio, and other system adjustments, and an attention to laptop model & design (ie cooling capability relative to workload), you should be fine with laptop, *if* your computational demands are reasonable for the system. And beware any estimation of requirements. it will all depends on your exact system setup and workflow. What works for someone else can easily (and reasonably) not work for you.
1. I avoid consumer PC hardware if/whenever possible. period. usually piss-poor build quality, short warranty & support timeframe, etc. I find business class system end up being cheaper in the long run, for my usage approach
2. There are workstation laptops that can run at full tilt for hours and hours... they are expensive, powerful, big/heavy, and naturally have associated relatively short battery life. I'm looking at a mobile workstation based on the i7-14700HX based laptop, for future-proofing... and even then not having PCIe v5 SSDs is annoying. AMD HX CPU would seem to be theoretically better due to lower power draw, but I suspect AMD's limited manufacturing capacity and historically atrocious system software /drivers are limiting Tier 1 OEM adoption on top-end laptops... most unfortunately. As much as I'd like an AMD CPU, I also expect (require) fast USB data transfer (video) and most upper-end AMD laptops do NOT have 40gb/s USB... so they are out. but, whatever.
3. I'd be inclined to set up the entire environment on most powerful PC you have (desktop or laptop). Set up as you would hope your future system could support. Now, with all cameras on, mics, etc Stream and Record while measuring hardware resource utilization... that should give you a good baseline to start considering your purchase requirements.