Disrespectful? They are disrespecting all of us by ignoring their issues with their arrogant butts.
Pay? You on drugs? As I said I have used a lot of github projects which is a 100% volunteering system, as well as Linux which is also volunteering, and I have yet to run into this so don't excuse them because you are ignorant of how real software can be ran (you know when the devs actually care about it).
Your 20-30 minutes must be nice as mine is within minutes now. Know when it gets worse? When I open the plugins dialog even if there are no plugins but what does it matter since the devs are too busy for such small things. My crash bug is so small they didn't give a crap about that either. I have been on the forums, and in the comments section of youtube vids, and not one took up for OBS and 90% of them said they would jump ship if something else, that wasn't a fork( like slobs), was out there for the exact same reasons I said above.
Small problems that are ignored, or put on the back burner, can be symptoms of a larger problem that is coming and any developer worth their weight in pee knows that.