remote connection

I am working on getting a multiplayer stream set up for me and my friends. We are planning on playing a few 2v2 games remotely (everyone is playing from their own home), but would like to have all of the computers output into one YouTube stream through OBS. Would something like VDO ninja work...

Howdy! I have streamer bot on a different network running Windows Server. Is there a way to get my OBS and my Chatbot hosted on the server to talk to each other? I have been playing around with ZeroTier and Tailscale but unable to connect both machines (did indeed do port and allow 4455 port...